Just had dinner with Teacher Gao from the group and his two apprentices at the sour soup beef place in the Europe-America Center. We drank a bottle of draft beer 🍻, got carried away chatting, and didn’t realize time flew by until we ran out of dishes, only to find out we had spent 2 hours on this meal. I have a lot of thoughts, so I’ll write them down quickly. 1. When we talked about the support system, he immediately said he would buy a book for me and then transferred me 88. A master! Just like when the pickled vegetable queen transferred me 88. Those who can do this are all masters. 2. He knows how to compliment people, and he does it just right. This is something I need to learn. I’m not very good at complimenting others; I tend to share what I think is good, good books, and the methodologies I’ve practiced myself. 3. Many times, I would say something, and he understands what I’m trying to express next. This is something only those who have been in the field can understand. 4. The master-apprentice system is very interesting; becoming his apprentice costs hundreds of thousands. It’s about teaching by example. For instance, when I talked to Teacher Gao about pipeline income, he immediately told his apprentice from Shandong next to me how to turn his investment flow business into pipeline income. 5. When talking about the pandemic, he mentioned that during the lockdown in Shanghai in 2022, he went to Shanghai to sell vegetables, and many procedures were handled by his beautiful apprentice across the way. What does this mean? It’s like becoming his apprentice through fees, and then becoming a partner, turning the apprentice into part of his support system. 6. When discussing dreams, his dream control technique is amazing; he can decide whether or not to dream, who to dream about, and what to do in the dream, similar to a wish-granting technique. He also records his dreams; I’ve written before that I rarely dream, and when I do, I quickly record it, but I don’t record wet dreams, while Teacher Gao records even those, and when we talked about this, I had another drink with him. 7. He keeps dropping golden quotes, like, "Look at other people's stories, and live your own life well." 8. The influence of the original family is significant; everyone speaks from their past experiences. For example, Teacher Gao shared about his inner demons in the group, which I don’t have experience with. Liu Ming said in the support system to use the three-life method to view a problem. Recently, I’ve been self-aware, and my method is to record it and then let ChatGPT provide critical analysis from a philosophical perspective, to gain insight. After reflecting once, it’s like looking at the past self from the present self, allowing for the iteration of my thoughts. 9. Only those who dare to invest heavily truly understand. In the past, for every project, I acted without deep consideration, just did it and then talked about it, with both successes and failures, but I couldn’t make big money because I didn’t invest heavily. 10. If you say it, you must do it. I previously wrote an article on how to build trust and compound assets, so I just transferred 35 to Liu Ming and 10 to Sister Yu’er. Liu Ming is the source; I got to know Teacher Gao through Sister Yu’er, and with this transfer, I feel at ease.
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